Dont ya just hate it when someone social climbs you?
Social climbing is when someone dogs you for friends of higher status. i just hate the fact when that does happen to me that the person has to rub it in that they are now closer friends than i am and that they are in a higher position. I dont need that kind of caper around. I have had a situation where i was friends with this person and when i intro'ed the person to my friends, the person started hanging out with them and didnt talk or hung out with me. and then the person jumped onto another group of friends and so on with the same treatment in not talking or hanging out with those groups. but later ended up with no friends cause they climbed the social ladder and knew what was expect and the treatment of the friends after jumping that the person ended up having no friends and to a point where the person wasnt invited anywhere cause they knew what the person would be capable of and would act fake in a way just to be your friend again.
on that note and some advice. appreciate the friends you have and dont jump onto another group just cause they have a higher status, diversify, invite and enjoy.
This is true to the saying that friends come and go in your life. Our lives change at different points in time and friends paths may not cross again thus having people move on to different groups of friends. This is inevitable.
ReplyDeleteBut for someone to rub in your face that they are closer to someone else. Pscht. You don't need that trash.
It's sad, but there are just people like that in society. It's good that you can isolate them and refrain them from doing anymore harm from you agian. It's painful the first time, but in retrospect you know you won't let it happen again.